James Malm says:
If one lies with his betrothed, she shall be scourged, but not killed because she was forced; and the man shall bring a sacrifice for his sin. Thus showing the sanctity of marriage that even the betrothed may not indulge themselves.
So lets get this straight. In order to preserve the sanctity of marriage, James Malm says that you must beat the woman half to death if she has sexual relations with the man.19:20 And whosoever lieth carnally with a woman, that is a bondmaid, betrothed to an husband, and not at all redeemed, nor freedom given her; she shall be scourged; they shall not be put to death, because she was not free. 19:21 And he shall bring his trespass offering unto the LORD, unto the door of the tabernacle of the congregation, even a ram for a trespass offering. 19:22 And the priest shall make an atonement for him with the ram of the trespass offering before the LORD for his sin which he hath done: and the sin which he hath done shall be forgiven him.
As usual in patriarchal dominions, it is the woman that is at fault. The poor man was deceived by the women so he only has to kill a goat. The woman however is an evil temptress who was used by Satan to deceive and corrupt the once pure man, therefore, beat the evil out of her.'
So what brought about Malm's anger? Oral sex! Though for some reason he says it is the man's fault that women have oral sex. They are deceived by the men in the Church of God into giving oral sex before marriage in order to remain a virgin who has not been penetrated.
I have heard of many cases within the COG Groups where women have been convinced by their men friends that oral or manual sex is not really sex, and they then do this, thinking themselves to still be virgins.It is clearly obvious as to why Malm's wife left him.
I have news for you, Bill Clinton was wrong. ANY kind of behavior that is intended to produce any type of sexual activity between unmarried persons is pornea, that is, such activity is forbidden! And anyone who performs such activity is no longer a virgin in the emotional and spiritual sense.
Spiritually we are to remain BOTH physical and spiritual virgins until lawful marriage. This also has its spiritual application! We are NOT to try get as close as we can to paganism without actually worshipping the idol! We are not to study and involve ourselves in doing or believing as the pagans do.