Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Monday, January 3, 2011
"Sometimes in life there is NOTHING left to do but have a good laugh (or cry)."
I have watched, listened and participated in the WCG/COG perspectives since I was 14 years old. I was a minister for 26 of those years. I am now 60. Life seems to last only about 15 minutes which I did not know when 14. And while I am more known for my writings on topics on abusive religion, ministers and churches, or taking another look at the real origins of anything from the Bible to human origins, my heart goes out to all of you as you watch your organization implode, once again.
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Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know this is the experience you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this moment.
Always say “yes” to the present moment. What could be more futile, more insane, than to create inner resistance to what already is? what could be more insane than to oppose life itself, which is now and always now? Surrender to what is. Say “yes” to life — and see how life suddenly starts working for you rather than against you."
Eckhart Tolle
I knew the vast majority of the full time ministers in all the COG's when they were just kids. You know, the "wasn't that just 15 minutes ago?" thing. We had a lot of fun together not knowing what the future would have in store for all of us who went into the ministry, sincerely and with great hope of being in the right place, teaching and believing the right things, the right way in the right Church. Phew....what a ride. A few of them, mostly those who are now their own one man show, seem to show signs of mental and personality disorders that can more easily hidden in a ministry as quirkiness and narcissism in religion looks more like sincerity and how most of the characters in the Bible acted. Don't be fooled. It's still a personality disorder by modern standards and some, perhaps don't need more followers but rather medication.
I see these kids and friends, now old or at least older and think, "If I only knew then what I know now." But that's not how it works. We say that experience is the best teacher but the tuition is high. Let me tell you, experience is the ONLY teacher and the rest is all hearsay.
"What is....is"
"We're all here to learn."
"Welcome to Earth School"
Since being terminated 12 years ago, ( I wanted to be but didn't know how to leave my congregation of wonderful friends behind or even what to do with my life now), I have had to face many things. I have made mistakes in processing the experience. It brought me anxiety, repressed anger which leads to depression and a boatload of doubt and "what's next?" I stomped my feet in ways that didn't help and was divorced. I have made a few but lost most friends. Since sarcasm is anger turned sideways, I wrote sarcastically to put a sharp edge on my experiences and new perspectives. I have learned that most depression is anger that you feel you have no right to express, (a common feeling with ministers towards HQ) or that doing so will exact a price too high to pay. (also a proven truth )
You will go through the same things because what is happening is no small thing.
"If you understand, then things are as they are. If you don't understand..then things are as they are."
Perhaps a little advice based on experience of loss and dis-illusionment. Actually disillusionment is a good thing for why would we want to have illusions...?
First of all...Breathe. You can't fix it all and you won't solve it all. All you can do is be yourself and follow the path you feel you have to be on. See where it goes.
Secondly...Step outside the box of having just one source, leader, group, organization, minister or ideas about how it all is. There are bigger boxes of truth and reality than those defined by the COG's or any religion. They are mere sign posts along the way but a sign post is not the same as the destination. It just points the direction and sometimes they get pointed in the wrong direction by pranksters.
Thirdly...Don't read your Bible too much. You'll never be able to process this doing that. Everyone does that so no one can find a reason to drop their guard, share the experience as it really is and give each other a really big hug. It divides. As I have noted, the COG's add to themselves by subtraction and multiply by division. I would encourage the COG administrations, boards, councils and humans to have a big meeting, not just for those that agree with them but for everyone. Just be there and start with a big hug. Let your tears flow and keep looking each other in the eye until you realize one of Buddhisms great observations...(The narcissists and those with genuine personality disorders will not be able to do this so don't expect it.)
"Sometimes in life there is NOTHING left to do but have a good laugh."
(or cry)
I'm not really here to give advice, just observations of what, to me that journey from age 14 to 60 so far has taught me. Some would say I have learned nothing, but they are very very wrong. I would love to speak to those who have had their hearts and hopes handed to them over the years in a paper bag with a pat on the head and a hearty "be warmed and be filled, we'll be praying for you." They aren't. They just say that. I miss teaching and speaking what seems to me to be a better form of "the truth."
I'd also like to say, that in my experience, Denny Luker is probably one of the most sincere and kind humans beings I have ever me. I know he is not sleeping. If he reads this...Denny, don't put the ice cream in the cupboard to hid it from your wife when she caught you pacing the kitchen when WCG was imploding.. :) I remember the details of your last round of this!
I KNOW he has no idea where and how this all has come from and what the hell has happened. We were great friends at one time and are not at this point only due to time and distance. I would however love to have a chat with him about letting people be themselves and that "we all need to speak the same thing," is neither true nor possible. Where two are three are gathered together, in reality, we have two or three different ways of filtering our world, life and experiences. And it's ok....
My heart is with you though I don't believe as I once did. My heart is with most pastors who were friends and probably can't eat very well, sleep very well and wonder what's going to happen to them personally as this unfolds. They are losing their friends and having great anxiety or not depending. I don't miss it. But I do understand it. My heart is with the member who agonizes over why church has to be so hard and drama ridden. Their are reasons, but I'll save that for another time.
In my opinion, this is the overall problem we all face in this life of thinking we have to find the one true church, truth, doctrine, interpretation and reality amongst all of the chaff. In real church history, there never was one true church. Before the body of Jesus cooled, the struggle over who understood it all had divided up nicely and would only get worse. I won't show you the proof in this letter, but Peter really hated Paul and Paul really disliked Peter, James and John. He called them "reputed pillars" and then bragged he learned "nothing from them..." wow! Luke made fun of Peter, as did John who thought that denying and betraying were the same. He always refers to Peter along side a comment about Judas. There was a reason for that. There is truly nothing new under the sun of pastoral/member relations.
However....
"Identification with your mind creates an opaque screen of concepts, labels, images, words, judgments, and definitions that blocks all true relationship. It comes between you and yourself, between you and your fellow man and woman, between you and nature, between you and God. It is this screen of thought that creates the illusion of separateness, the illusion that there is you and a totally separate "other." You then forget the essential fact that, underneath the level of physical appearances and separate forms, you are one with all that is."
Amen....
Sincerely
HWA and His British Israelism Not Looked Upon Too Kindly By Canadians
Idiot Camping making fool of himself -- and victims of his followers
It never ceases to amaze me the number of preachers out there in television boobdom, who keep saying we must "trust our Bible" when it says the world's coming to an end any time now -- when those readers really mean we should only trust their interpretation of the Bible.
Case in point: Harold Camping. I don't know what to say about this guy. Last we heard from him, he set a date for the end of the world as September 6, 1994. Remember all of his "followers" who were weeping when it was business as usual, wailing "God lied to us"? Actually of course, it was Camping who was the liar, not God.
Now Camping has set a new date -- October 21, 2011, to be preceded by the so-called "Rapture" five months earlier in May.
Riiiiiight. And "Preparation H ™ does feel good, on the (w)hole."
Simple rule folks: If someone says they know when the end will come, they are lying. How do we know? Because Jesus said so. Someone like Hal Lindsey, Harold Camping, any of a number of Word of Faith preachers -- just fill in the blank.
And don't get me started on the self-proclaimed successors to Herbert W. Armstrong and their continued promotion of British Israelism (READ: White Identity). I'm not talking about their love for apartheid and other forms of racial segregation. I'm talking about how much they hate their fellow whites. How anyone can seriously believe that Germans are genetically disposed to evil because they are descendants of the Assyrians (Mesopotamians or what we now call Iraqis) is really beyond me. Especially when genetic science has proven this wrong as much as the alleged "link" between Caucasians and Semites. Key of David, my ass.
About Camping's only redeeming quality appears to be -- far as I have been able to find out -- he eschews such blatant racism. For now anyway. Mark my words, folks: Come Hallow-e'en and Camping will deny he ever made a prediction about the End of Days. Or he'll blame it on God. Trying blaming it on Satan, pal -- because that's who you're really talking to.
Next Genocide Under Way? Christians in Arab Countries Beign Murdered
Degenerate filth yelling Allah Akbar as Christians lie dying.
(AINA)- The car explosion that went off in front of Saints Coptic Orthodox Church in Alexandria killed 21 and injured 96 parishioners who were attending a New Year’s Eve Mass. According to church officials and eyewitnesses, there are many more victims that are still unidentified and whose body parts were strewn all over the street outside the church.
The body parts were covered with newspapers until they were brought inside the church after some Muslims started stepping on them and chanting Jihadi chants (video showing dead bodies and limbs covered with newspapers in the street).
According to eyewitnesses, a green Skoda car pulled up outside the church shortly after midnight. Two men got out, one of them talked shortly on his mobile phone, and the explosion occurred almost immediately after they left the scene. On the back of the Skoda was a sticker with the words “the rest is coming.”
Eyewitnesses confirmed that security forces guarding the church withdrew nearly one hour before the blast, leaving only four policemen and an officer to guard such a big church and nearly 2000 people attending the midnight mass. “Normally they would have waited until the mass was over,” said el-Gezeiry. He also commented on the Muslim’s schadenfreude at the massacre at the church, who were heard chanting “Allah Akbar.”
“Is this a victory?” He asks. “Whoever saw this fire and people dying and body parts all over the place and could still chant ‘Allah Akbar’ is a terrorist.”
As the pathetic Western world leaders stand by and do nothing.
(CBS News)- Extremist groups are waging a “genocide” against Christians in the Middle East, a former Lebanese president said Monday, after a New Year’s suicide bombing of a church in Egypt killed 21 people.
Amin Gemayel, a Christian who served a six-year term as president in the 1980s, cited the attack in Egypt and recent violence in Iraq as he urged leaders to give Christian communities a larger political role.
“Massacres are taking place for no reason and without any justification against Christians. It is only because they are Christians,” said Gemayel, who leads Lebanon’s right-wing Christian Phalange party.
“What is happening to Christians is a genocide,” he said.
Lebanon, which experienced a ruinous 15-year civil war, in part between Muslims and Christians, that left about 150,000 dead, is deeply divided along sectarian lines. Christians make up about 40 percent of Lebanon’s 4 million people and the country is the only Arab nation with a Christian head of state.
The Phalange party, which was founded in 1936 by Gemayel’s father, Pierre, fought heavily on the Christian side during Lebanon’s 1975-90 civil war. Weasel Zippers
The bloodbath continues while we stand by and do nothing, an eternal blight on America’s soul.
(RTTNews) - A survivor of the Christian church massacre in Iraq two months ago was killed in the continuing spree of violence targeting the community in the country.
A Christian woman in the Karrada district of central Baghdad was shot to death at dawn on Monday while she was asleep, reports quoting Iraq’s interior ministry said.
The assailants also robbed Rafah Butros Toma, who lived alone in Al-Wahda neighborhood, of her possessions.
She was a witness to the massacre of worshipers in a failed rescue operation by Iraqi security forces in a Catholic church in central Baghdad on October 31.
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